our elopement...the prep

you know when you are a little girl...
and you dream of meeting your prince charming...
and having a fabulous wedding...
and you know exactly how you want your dress to look, and the flowers you want, and what flavor the cake will be and in your head it's all perfect...

well...
i was not that girl!
to be honest, before i met johnny the thought of getting married was not something that i really even thought about.
i guess sometimes all you need is to meet
"the one"
that changes everything!

and as you know from our
we've been together almost 10 years...
and because our lives have been soooo crazy this year
we decided to skip out on the stress and drama that sometimes comes with planning a big wedding
and instead, ran off to san diego and ELOPED!!

it was the most perfect weekend and we are
sooooo happy with our decision...
our wedding day was exactly how we wanted it to be...
just about the two of us and our love...
and i can't believe today we've been married one month!!

so over the next week i'll be sharing pics from our special day 
that were taking by the amazing

enjoy...

most everything at our elopement was diy including 
 johnny's boutonniere and my bouquet which was full of mrd flowers!!   

i also wore two different headpieces to go with my two dresses...my first piece included lace from my mom's wedding veil.




seriously how cute are these cupcakes!!!


and speaking of dresses...for the ceremony i wore...
my mom's wedding dress!!  
never in a million years did i think i would be wearing the same dress that my mom wore to her wedding...
 but when i tried it on and it was a perfect fit, i knew it was meant to be... 
then i changed into a cute short lace dress for later.


our first look...johnny knew i was wearing my mom's dress, but had no idea what it looked like...




he loved it....
make sure and check back this week for more pics from our 
elopement!

be pretty~melis






fashion's night out...henri bendel edition

a couple weeks ago
i put on my cutest outfits...



unpacked some of mrd's newest fall pretties...












and had a blast at Henri Bendel for Fashion's Night Out in NYC!!!








and the BEST part of my long weekend....
a visit from my SISTER!!!





and while i had fun in the big apple...
i was so ready to go home to my husband...
yes i have one of those now;)
and i'll fill you all in on that story tomorrow!!

be pretty~melis





deep in the heart of texas...

hello pretties!
this summer i've been soooo horrible at keeping up with blogging...
but in all fairness i've had a LOT going on, which i'm excited to share with you....

first up....
my family moved to TEXAS!!!
i know crazy right??
so about two months ago we all said goodbye to the house we grew up in 
and then took a two day road trip to lovely
san antonio!!





 on the road...






we also got to meet up with johnny's older sister who has the 
CUTEST BABY EVER!!!

i stayed out there a little longer than johnny so after a week of unpacking and decorating
i hit up austin with my brothers:)






and then we spent my last night in texas enjoying the amazing sunset and the tiny moon...




leaving san antonio
and coming back to naperville 
knowing that my parents weren't just 10 minutes away
was probably one of the hardest things i've had to do...
but little did they know we would be seeing them sooner than they thought;)

and it did help to find love post its from my mom hidden in my things...


be pretty~melis






party time...arm party swap

lately i have forgotten what my wrists look like
bc they are always adorned with lots and lots of arm candy...
the more bracelets the better!  

so when i heard that leonora and ilene
were going to have a summer arm party swap with different bloggers 
i was totes on board!!



i was partnered up with the gorgeous
maria-isabel of agape love designs
whose blog i already followed so i was super excited!!



yep that one says "be pretty"
pinks, purples, and a little bling....love them!!!




thanks maria-isabel for my amazing arm candy!  
and for those of you that want to learn more about her, feel free to go stalk;)
be pretty~melis

sister day

apparently today is 
sister day...
so...a note to my sister...




dear laur~

you are amazing.
even though we are nine years apart i am 
SO HAPPY
that we are as close as we are, 
and continue to grow closer each and every day.
i want you to know that i am so proud of everything you've accomplished.
you were so brave to follow your heart 
even though it meant moving hundreds of miles away
(is it time for you to come back yet lol)...
and i hope that the people that you are surrounded by
see how truly special you are.
i hope they see...
how your laugh can light up the room...
how your determination can be so encouraging...
that while you may be stubborn, you fight for what you believe in...
that you are always thinking of others...
that you are so smart and extremely witty...
that you like to stand out and not be like everyone else...
that you are beautiful both inside and out...
that you love with your whole heart...
and i hope they know that  you are meant to be treasured
and treated like a princess
because you are perfect.

i love you so much and i can't wait to see you soon.
promise me that you will never forget how special you are little sister.
i love you broseph goebbels;)

~m